Engage Your Ghosts â¢Pick your time frame for assigning “relevance. ” Today, this quarter, this year, or longer term? â¢Eliminate “either/or” and engage in “both and” thinking. ⢠Learn from the past and let it go. ⢠Encourage and reward conflict. ⢠Manage your own uncertainty-driven anxiety. ⢠Help others do the same. ⢠Ensure cross-pollination among stakeholder groups.