Engage Your Ghosts â¢Pick your time frame for assigning “relevance. ” Today, this quarter, this year, or longer term? â¢Eliminate “either/or” and engage in “both and” thinking. â¢ Learn from the past and let it go. â¢ Encourage and reward conflict. â¢ Manage your own uncertainty-driven anxiety. â¢ Help others do the same. â¢ Ensure cross-pollination among stakeholder groups.